Lets think about it. Marriage is not all about bed of roses. Nothing is easy in life, you have to work towards it to achieve success and happiness. We have our happiness and arguments too!
A happy marriage is about three things:
memories of togetherness
forgiveness of mistake
promise to never give up on each other
~Surabhi Surendra~
I would like to share as this is interesting to read, message shared by my ex-colleague, Tina on her FB:-
For those couples so eager to call it quits and throw in the towel on your relationship because everything isn't perfect....here is some food for thought
Lifelong commitment is not what most people think it is. It is not waking up to make and eat daily breakfast. It is not cuddling in bed till you both fall asleep. It is not a clean home filled with laughter and love making daily.
It is someone who steals all the covers and snores, it is slammed doors and a few harsh word at times. It is stubbornly disagreeing and giving each other silent treatment till your hearts heal, and then forgiveness. It is coming home to same person daily that you know loves and cares about you in spite of, and because of, who you are. It is laughing about the one time you accidentally did something stupid. It is about dirty laundry and unmade beds. It is about helping each other with the hard work of life. It is about swallowing the nagging words instead of saying them out loud. It is about eating the easiest meal you can make and sitting down together at a late hour because you both had a crazy day. It is when you have an emotional breakdown and your love lays down with you and holds you, and tells you everything is going to be okay. And you believe them. It is about still loving someone even though sometimes they make you absolutely insane.
Loving someone isn't always easy, sometimes it is hard. But it is amazing and comforting and one of the best things you will ever experience.
Be blessed to have a wonderful partner in your life.
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